Often we misjudge people due to our perception while we simply ignore some vital signs which signify a completely different picture.
Herein, a few key points have been summarized to identify those losers for whom you might be wasting your valuable time & efforts. Read the full work and equip yourself with fresh wisdom. You’ll surely save yourself from being misused.
- “BUSY IS NOT WHAT IT TAKES”
Everybody in today’s life is busy. No one has time to spare on anything useless or something which is not going to yield any profits. But it is priority of matters in one’s life that turns the table. And if a person is always busy for you, then he is surely not a real friend of yours. Run away from them and try to find yourself new and true ones. - “DON’T WAIT FOR PEOPLE WHO DO NOT DESERVE YOUR TIME”
Get this straight headed that your time is too precious to be wasted in waiting for someone who is always late. Because a person who doesn’t respects time does not respect himself. And a person who can not respect himself will never respect you. - “SET AN ALARM FOR PEOPLE WHO ARE TOO NICE TO YOU”
Agree or not, this world is never nice to someone until they are your family or they want something from you. Even if you are too nice to deserve this much of good behavior from people, do not trust blindly on unnecessarily extra sweet people. - ” TALKING IS OUTDATED”
People sometimes go like “I don’t usually do this for others, but you. ” These are toxic people. They can never help others with pure heart and expect a hand full of gifts for small things they do for you. Or always look for leverage to show the superiority over others. - ” JUDGE PEOPLE”
Yes, you read it correct. It is necessary to judge people to check whether they are deservent of all your respect and faith. Surely, you would not want people in your life who are mean to waiters and servants or other such people who have a less profile than them. Therefore, it is important to watch people before getting connected to them because once you become close to some such person it hurts even more as you regret your emotions & question yourself. - “OFFENDED FRIEND”
A friend who feels offended on every little thing, is not a friend at all. Friendship is about feeling connected both the ways and a buddy who gets angry at every moment is not a buddy. - “AGE IS JUST A NUMBER”
But that doesn’t imply you to act like an idiot who is irresponsible. Be mature. Show the intelligence that you possess. Try not to hide that intelligence and do not do stupid stuff like an ignorant, just because you think you are too smart for others of your age. Getting some quality is easy but challenge is in the way how you try to manage and balance that quality in front of the world. - ” SOCIAL EVENTS”
It is to be noted that we usually go to a few social events, where we see some people and start feeling discomfort and end up destroying the whole event by not being happy. So, avoid showing up to the events where you know there are people you dislike.
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